My husband and I have been married for 22 years and have four sons age 21, 20,18 and 15. When the eldest ones were in high school, they were unaware about their father's other family.
My appeal for my husband to end the relationship got nowhere. Things worsened when the woman got pregnant and bore him a daughter. He requested for understanding and a three year extension so he can settle the other family. However, the affair continued. He even bought a house and lot for them near his office.
Lately I told my sons about the affair. I'd rather that they hear it from me than from others. The eldest has already expressed his hatred against his father and the woman. Preserving the family name and our unity is what matters most to him.
I couldn't bear the pains any longer. I'm afraid that one day I'd be left alone. I've prayed and prayed about the matters, but nothing's happened. Please share with me your kind thoughts regarding the matter
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Friday, June 17, 2011
The Pain is too much to bear
I'm in my late 20's. My first and only boyfriend of three years went out of the country to work. He promised marriage when he comes back.
However, when he came back after two years, things changed. He took me for granted and later dumped me like a rag. I attempted suicide, but his comfort overshadowed my pain.
How can I forgive him? I trusted him so much I gave up everything for him. The Bible says that we should not hate our brothers or else we become murderers. I want to forget him, but the pain is too much for me to bear.
However, when he came back after two years, things changed. He took me for granted and later dumped me like a rag. I attempted suicide, but his comfort overshadowed my pain.
How can I forgive him? I trusted him so much I gave up everything for him. The Bible says that we should not hate our brothers or else we become murderers. I want to forget him, but the pain is too much for me to bear.
Are you Pro Divorce in the Philippines or not?
Philippines is the only country that has not legalized Divorce. The Gabriela refiled a controversial bill to legalized divorce in the Philippines.
The Catholic Church strictly opposes this. What God has joined together, no man can destroy. If the husband and wife have a misunderstanding they should resolve it together.
To Boycott or not to Boycott China products over Spratly Island Dispute?
Which side are you to Boycott or not to Boycott China products over Spratly Island Dispute?
To Boycott!
Albay Governor Joey Salceda, a political ally of President Aquino, urged Filipinos on Sunday to band together and boycott China-made products in retaliation to Beijing ’s “bullying’’ in the country’s territory.
To not Boycott!
Bongbong Marcos said "With regards boycott of Chinese goods.to give it perspective: China is our biggest trading partner while we are lumped together with ASEAN or "rest of the world" in terms of China's largest trading partners. So, in case we're contemplating some sort of suicidal trade embargo or boycott, if they were to retaliate likewise, the outcome would be pneumonia for us while they would probably get a minor rash in small area of their large physique. Skilled diplomacy and engagement of international bodies is our best bet in approaching the Spratlys problem"
According to the Philippine Government
Malacañang on Monday distanced itself from the proposed boycott of products from China as a signal against Beijing’s supposed ‘bullying’ in the disputed Spratly islands. In a press briefing Monday, presidential spokesperson Edwin Lacierda said it is not the policy of the administration to boycott products as the administration prefers a peaceful settlement to the resolution of the matter.
To Boycott!
Albay Governor Joey Salceda, a political ally of President Aquino, urged Filipinos on Sunday to band together and boycott China-made products in retaliation to Beijing ’s “bullying’’ in the country’s territory.
To not Boycott!
Bongbong Marcos said "With regards boycott of Chinese goods.to give it perspective: China is our biggest trading partner while we are lumped together with ASEAN or "rest of the world" in terms of China's largest trading partners. So, in case we're contemplating some sort of suicidal trade embargo or boycott, if they were to retaliate likewise, the outcome would be pneumonia for us while they would probably get a minor rash in small area of their large physique. Skilled diplomacy and engagement of international bodies is our best bet in approaching the Spratlys problem"
According to the Philippine Government
Malacañang on Monday distanced itself from the proposed boycott of products from China as a signal against Beijing’s supposed ‘bullying’ in the disputed Spratly islands. In a press briefing Monday, presidential spokesperson Edwin Lacierda said it is not the policy of the administration to boycott products as the administration prefers a peaceful settlement to the resolution of the matter.
Premarital Sex and Pregnancy
Questions: I'm a third year college student. I have a boyfriend my first. Sometimes ago, we did something I thought was beyond what sweethearts should be doing. Fortunately, there was no penetration and I was wearing my underwear with a panty shield when that thing happened. What worries me now is that I have not yet had my menstruation. Please help me . I'm scared.
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